There are get-togethers, there are cocktail parties, and then there
are receptions. In that order do we generally see these congregations
increase in their level of formality; however, it’s not uncommon to
attend a casual reception or a more formal get-together. Again, like
most things, its situation dependent.
Get-togethers are typically more relaxed and comfortable social
events, often loosely planned where most of the attendants know each
other already or share a common bond. The dress code here ranges from
casual to business casual. Cocktail parties on the other hand are
planned events where many of the guests do not know each other; hence we
have a higher level of formality as people feel each other out.
Judgments are passed, business deals started, and business cards are
liberally distributed here. Expect the dress code to be business casual
to black tie optional.
Finally, we have receptions. Although they can be
very informal events, many times they are not, as the event’s purpose
is to “receive” a new couple, a new company president, or a new child.
For this, we show respect by elevating our appearance. Expect semiformal
to black tie optional.
