There are a lot of things you can’t control on the
first date; whether or not she’ll like the restaurant, what she’ll think
of your opinions, and if she laughs at any of your jokes. But one thing
you can control is your appearance, and it’s to your advantage to make
the most out of what you have.
On a first date, always try to stack the cards in your favor. You
want to look your best, and unless you have the body of Adonis “your
best look” is a comfortable well fitting suit or sports jacket. If built
right, it will accentuate your shoulders, trim your waist, and give you
the appearance of added height. To match the jacket, wear a pair of
dark wool trousers. Roomier than jeans, they’ll also hide small stains
better whether you spill food or forget to shake. And always pay close
attention to your shoes’ shine and style; you can bet your date will.
Lastly, make sure to subtly let her know what you’ll be wearing well
before the appointed time. She may be under the impression the date is a
more casual situation, and may be uncomfortable if her outfit doesn’t
match your clothing’s level of formality.
