Many graduates think the event surrounding the culmination of their
education is about them. I know I did. It wasn’t until I had children of
my own that I realize a graduation is really a family celebration, a
time to reflect on the sacrifices made by others so that one can achieve
a common goal. With this in mind, you should dress smartly not for
yourself but in respect to those who went without so you wouldn’t have
to.
Even when wearing a ceremonial robe, you’ll want to dress smartly as
your shoes, socks, and trouser legs will be seen. Consider timeless
oxfords as footwear, but any dress shoe that is made from quality
leather and properly shined will do. For most, a simple suit & tie
or sports jacket, dark trousers, and tie is perfect. Leave the jacket
off when robed, but have it handy to wear to the reception and multiple
picture taking sessions.
If a guest of the graduate, take the ceremony’s location into
consideration. A ceremony at Columbia University in New York can be
attended in a suit; a graduation at Oceanside High School in California
will more likely call for a sports jacket and light-wool trousers.