A man’s life is full of moments that will require him to dress a certain
way. From his high school graduation to walking his daughter down the
aisle, a man needs to understand the basics of formal, semi-formal, and
casual dressing so that he knows when to wear what and how. Because a
gentleman understands his clothing is not just about him; his personal
presentation is a reflection of the respect he shows to those around
him.
Deciphering the Invitation
The first rule in dressing for an event is to read
and understand the invitation. Many times the choice of what to wear has
been made for you, and your options are limited to the colors and
styles within the confines of a set garment type. But what exactly is
“Black Tie,” and how should you dress for a business casual event?
(Note these terms are only for North America, as the English and
Europeans have their own terminology and the same word does not always
have the same meaning.)
Black Tie – sometimes referred to as evening dress,
means that a tuxedo is expected. Weddings, operas, receptions at
embassies, balls, and charity dinners are just a few places you’ll see
this dress code.
Black Tie Optional – a tuxedo or dark suit are both
equally acceptable. This dress code evolved as dress standards relaxed
and more men found themselves without a tuxedo. Instead of excluding
them from events, black tie optional was created to include all. If you
have both a tuxedo and solid dark suit, wear the garment that fits and
compliments you best. Do not rent a tuxedo if you own a perfectly fine
suit, but instead consider purchasing a quality tuxedo if you expect to
attend more than one of these events every couple years.
Semi-formal – a dark suit, crisp dress shirt with
non-obtrusive pattern, and a conservative tie. No tuxedos are expected,
and none should be worn.
Business Casual – a tie is optional, but a dress
shirt & nice trousers are required. A sports jacket or blazer should
also be worn (this last one is my opinion, but alas is actually
optional).
Casual – Jeans, cotton trousers, & shorts are
acceptable; they should fit well and be free of holes and wrinkles. A
simple collared polo shirt that fits will suffice in warm weather, but
in cooler weather the smart dresser will choose a button down shirt with
a casual style, color, and/or pattern.
